To my children


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To my children,

You spent this past Saturday without me.

I know. Weird, right?

Weekends are sacred in this house. I’ve made them so. After weekdays spent mostly apart, I spin our Saturdays and Sundays around family.

But on Saturday I woke before you. Before you had been awake for an hour, I kissed your sleepy heads and squeezed you goodbye. And then, with pockets full of water bottles and granola bars, I left for the day.

You knew I was going to a ‘march.’ You even watched parts of it on Daddy’s computer, trying to find me in the crowd (though I wish you could have seen me, I have to say I’m really glad you didn’t stand a chance!). But I didn’t tell you a lot about why I went. What a march is. Why it’s important.

Some of that is intentional. At seven and four, there is only so much I want to put in your sphere of awareness. While I want you to grow up as an active participant in the world outside our small family life, I also want to protect your childhoods. While I want to begin strengthening your activist muscles, I don’t want to do so at the expense of your innocence and imagination. While I want you to be aware that the world is not always sunshine and rainbows and that, sometimes, you must work really hard to uncover even the smallest glimmers of light, I also want to preserve the hope and happiness that radiates from your eyes for as long as possible. I want that for me as much as for you. Because over these past few months, it has been your unfiltered goodness and magic that has lighted my path. When the events of the world rock me to my core, you remind me that there is still so much good in the world. So much good right in my arms.

I’ve been lucky to feel secure in my freedom and safety for all of my life so far. I felt so safe, secure, and free, in fact, that I took it for granted. I assumed all that freedom and security would only grow. I assumed the freedom and security of those who enjoyed far less than I did would, also, only grow. That the world was moving towards a kinder, more understanding, more tolerant, better place and there was nothing I needed to do to keep it going. I didn’t think much of how hard people battled to get me these freedoms. That I was never as free or safe as I’d thought. Or how easily it could all be taken away.

Last year, I learned that I was wrong. And I began to fear that safety and freedom would not be yours to experience.

So, on Saturday, I marched for you. And for me. And for your Daddy. I marched for our friends and our family. And their friends and families. And families like ours in every corner of our country.

I went because this moment is critical. This is the moment when we need to be involved. It’s a moment for me to show you that when we’re wrong, we admit it. When we see that we’ve been taking things for granted, we right it. It’s a moment to wear our beliefs on our shirts, our hearts on our sleeves, and everything we care about in the look in our eyes. It’s a moment to add our voices. When I look back months, years, decades from now, I will know that I stood up, spoke up. I woke up. And when you look back months, years, decades from now, you will know that this is what we do when our rights, freedoms, and the basic structures of goodness, decency and kindness are under attack. We don’t sit back quietly. We don’t leave it to someone else to battle. We wake up and take a stand. We pack our pockets full of whatever it is we need, and we march.

Someday you’ll read this and understand, better than you do today, the details of what Saturday was all about.  But they won’t change the overall message that, even at four and seven, I want you to know deep in your bones. That the world, indeed, has goodness, kindness, freedom, understanding, and tolerance. But only when we make it so. And we must stay awake, stand up, speak up, and make it so.

To changing the world.


your Mommy


  1. <3. "At seven and four, there is only so much I want to put in your sphere of awareness." That whole paragraph spoke deeply to me. Every day, I dance around what I should be telling my children & what I should be shielding from them (especially the oldest, at 7.5). It's a delicate balance, a mix of truth and innocence. I love this letter to your boy & girl that they will digest someday as their full story unfolds…

  2. I can understand how you feel about your children because I was in the situation before. I love this post. Thank you so much!
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  3. I am moved by your letter to your children. Hope they can read it soon. All of mother in the world always want the best for their children. So am I.
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  4. “Someday you’ll read this and understand, better than you do today” This line make me moved :). I’m a mom I have a compassion for you.
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  5. How meaningful it is! I am sure your kids will read it in someday and know that all you’ve done is good for them.
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  6. I hope my kids can understand the feeling of my wife and I like this.
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  7. How meaningful your post is! One day, when your kids read this, I think they will love their momy more, and proud of you more.
    I really love your post.
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  8. As a mother, I went through some things in life that I wanted to say to my children and can never seem to find the words. am sure your kids will read it in someday and know that all you’ve done is good for them.How sweet of you. You are truly lovable!
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  9. How meaningful your post is! I love this letter to your boy & girl that they will digest someday as their full story unfolds. When the kids read this post, I think they will proud of their mom.
    When you have kids, things are changing.
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  10. I want to cry when reading this post, the mother is great. Your child will be very proud of you, I am sure so.
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  11. I think about my mother when reading this post. You are a wonderful mother. Hope your children will read this and understand your feeling.
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  12. I can understand how you feel about your children. Thank you very much for wonderful article.

  13. My tears want to fall down when I read your post. This is not just a story. It is a lesson which you want to tell your children and everyone else as well. When people want to achieve something, they need to step up, speak out and take it. What a meaningful post! Thank you so much for writing this 🙂
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  14. Can’t believe I can read this post to end. That is a meaningful lesson that children should read.
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  15. When your children grow up, they will see you both was fighting for freedom. You both marched and so they will be led by example by your principles.
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  16. this is such a good read,it echoes all throughout the world. I hope the young minds can read this and share it speak up!especially to those who have the opportunity to speak.

  17. We all expect our children to understand the feelings of a mother, wife, and friend. Great article. Thank you for sharing this with us.
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  18. Awesome article!
    For sure parenting is the hardest job in the world but also the most rewarding.
    There’s no handbook so we must not be too hard on ourselves if we are not always perfect.
    Keep up the good work!
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  19. Hi Tricia,

    Loving article. Everybody loves their kids. It’s a loving picture. Best wishes for you and your childs. I will pray for them to the GOD.

    Thanks for sharing.
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  20. I have left my job due to my daughter because I am not able to spend much time with her.

    So I can understand what it means.

    Thank you very much for sharing.

    Keep it up the good work.

  21. nice article, inspiratif

  22. How meaningful your post is! One day, when your kids read this, I think they will love their momy more, and proud of you more.
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  25. Hi Tricia,

    Very Heart touching and beautifully narrated.

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  30. Someday you’ll read this and understand, better than you do today. . . I think I found myself here, You made me remember those days when we were growing up as a child I nearly thought that my Dad hate me but now that i’m older, I came to understand that my Dad actually meant good for me and that’s why today I am proud of my Dad and Mum. Thank you Tricia, your post is whole lots of meaning and flashback for me.
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  31. I can fully understand how you feel about your children because I was in the situation before. Really love it!
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  32. The work should be done, you have done a good thing, I think it is something that we should all aim for, it will make life better and better. Thanks for your sharing
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  33. Great letter. I did read it for my children. Thanks
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  34. It’s so, so important to get involved with activism, and to teach your children about it. I love this!

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  37. Hi, Nobody can take place of mother. i try to spent more time with my children as much as possible and so that they feel happy. I try to give gifts like toys,tennis shoes,racquets and robots and others.
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